Not Tonight, I'm Tired: The Sexless Marriage Cure for Putting Sex Back Into Your Marriage and Learning to LOVE the Connection by Marita Kinney & Demoine Kinney & Loretta Worley

Author:Marita Kinney & Demoine Kinney & Loretta Worley [Kinney, Marita & Kinney, Demoine & Worley, Loretta]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Tags: Christian Books & Bibles, Christian Living, Marriage, Self-Help, Relationships, 90 Minutes (44-64 Pages), Parenting & Relationships, Religion & Spirituality, Health; Fitness & Dieting, 77new
Amazon: B00BFN2B3K
Publisher: Pure Thoughts Publishing, LLC
Published: 2013-02-13T05:00:00+00:00

Chapter 5

The Love Bowl

I call it the Love Bowl because if you adopt this method for your marriage, believe me, you’ll be feeling a lot of love coming from the bowl. This is very simple, and this book is probably the shortest book you’ll ever read that will help transform your marriage. Place a small bowl in a mutual place like your bedroom or bathroom. I would suggest a dresser or bathroom countertop, somewhere where the ball can be easily displayed and free of any clutter surrounding it. You want this bowl to be very visible. I prefer a clear glass bowl, this is to help you identify if there something in the bowl from across the room. Your bowl should look something like this:

What could possibly be in the bowl? Marbles, marbles, marbles! Explain to your spouse how you would like to honor God’s word by practicing 1 Corinthians 7:3-5. If you follow God’s word, you shouldn’t pick and choose what you’re going to honor. Divide an equal amount of marbles between you and your spouse. I suggest 25 marbles for each person. Bags of marbles typically come with about 50 in it. After you disburse the marbles, store the marbles in a bag that is easily accessible. I recommend finding a bag that looks similar to this:

By using these simple items, you can symbolically let your partner know when you desire them intimately. No words need to be spoken, just simply place the marble in the Love Bowl. Can you imagine that throughout your day, you happen to be in your normal routine, and then suddenly you go in your bedroom and notice a marble in your Love Bowl? How would you feel? Let’s say that you also just saw your husband and had no idea that he was thinking about you because no words were spoken. Suddenly out of nowhere you noticed this marble sitting in your Love Bowl waiting on you to honor it. You walk out of the bedroom feeling desired and not like a piece of meat. The excitement of not knowing when your spouse is thinking of you is amazing. I have been caught by surprise many of times by noticing a marble in my Love Bowl. There were times when I had absolutely no idea that my husband was yearning for me, and then later approached him with a smirk, innocently letting him know that I noticed his marble. I have no idea, but it’s a very playful gesture even in front of our children. They have no idea what’s going through our minds, and now no one has to try to hint around them.

The Love Bowl has many benefits. The first benefit is that no words have to be spoken and it provides a symbolic way to let your partner know when you desire them sexually. It also stimulates the couple’s mentally, preparing both of them for the “bedroom ministry”. This playful nature adds anticipation and allows for the couple to become more spontaneous.

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